i Learned too!

Comes the Dawn/After a While

by Veronica A. Shoffstall, (C) 1971

After some time you learn the difference,

The subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul. 

And you learn that love doesn’t mean leaning, 

And company doesn’t always mean security. 

And you begin to learn that kisses aren’t contracts, 

And presents aren’t promises. 

And you begin to accept your defeats,

With your head up and your eyes ahead, 

With the grace of a woman, not the grief of a child. 

And you learn to build all your roads on today, 

Because tomorrow’s ground is too uncertain for plans, 

And futures have a way of falling down in mid-flight. 

After a while you learn, 

That even the sun burns if you get too much, 

And learn that it doesn’t matter how much you do care about, 

Some people simply don’t care at all.

And you accept that it doesn’t matter how good a person is, 

She will hurt you once in a while, 

And you need to forgive her for that.

You learn that talking can relieve emotional pain. 

You discover that it takes several years to build a relationship based on confidence, 

And just a few seconds to destroy it.

And that you can do something just in an instant,

And which you will regret for the rest of your life. 

You learn that the true friendships,

Continue to grow even from miles away.

And that what matters isn’t what you have in your life,

But who you have in your life.

And that good friends are the family,

Which allows us to choose.

You learn that we don’t have to switch our friends,

If we understand that friends can also change.

You realize that you are your best friend,

And that you can do do anything, or nothing,

And have good moments together.

You discover that the people who you most care about in your life,

Are taken from you so quickly,

So we must always leave the people who we care about with lovely words,

It may be the last time we see them.

You learn that the circunstances and the enviroment have influence upon us,

But we are responsible for ourselves.

You start to learn that you should not compare yourself with others,

But with the best you can be.

You discover that it takes a long time to become the person you wish to be,

And that the time is short.

You learn that it doesn’t matter where you have reached,

But where you are going to.

But if you don’t know where you are going to,

Anywhere will do.

You learn that either you control your acts,

Or they shall control you.

And that to be flexible doesn’t mean to be weak or not to have personality,

Because it doesn’t matter how delicate and fragile the situation is,

There are always two sides.

You learn that heroes are those who did what was necessary to be done,

Facing the consequences.

You learn that patience demands a lot of practice.

You discover that sometimes,

The person who you most expect to be kicked by when you fall,

Is one of the few who will help you to stand up.

You learn that maturity has more to do with the kinds of experiences you had

And what you have learned from them,

Than how many birthdays you have celebrated.

You learn that there are more from you parents inside you than you thought.

You learn that we shall never tell a child that dreams are silly,

Very few things are so humiliating,

And it would be a tragedy if she belived in it.

You learn that when you are angry,

You have the right to be angry,

But this doesn’t give you the right to be cruel.

You discover that only because someone doesn’t love you the way you would like her to,

It doesn’t mean that this person doesn’t love you the most she can,

Beacuse there are people who love us,

But just don’t know how to show or live that.

You learn that sometimes it isn’t enough being forgiven by someone,

Sometimes you have to learn how to forgive yourself.

You learn that with the same harshness you judge,

Some day you will be condemned. 

You learn that it doesn’t matter in how many pieces your heart has been broken,

The world doesn’t stop for you to fix it. 

You learn that time isn’t something you can turn back, 

Therefore you must plant your own garden and decorate your own soul, 

Instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers. 

And you learn that you really can endure. 

You really are strong .

And you can go so farther than you thougt you could go. 

And that life really has a value. 

And you have value within the life. 

And that our gifts are betrayers, 

And make us lose 

The good we could conquer,

If it wasn’t for the fear of trying.

Oh my Singapore!

I felt ecstatic when I knew that I would be traveling out of the country again. Not because of the destination, (Singapore) but because it will be my first time to be with my whole family. We are complete! And yes, this will be the first time for it to happen.

It was not my first time though to go to Singapore. I had a stopover before but this is the only time that I could say that I would be there for a tour.

Whenever I go places, I always am curious about their culture. The way they are, their places and their food.

Okay, this was the food part! The street foods! Since Singapore is such an expensive place when it comes to cost of living, we tried to see what they have on streets. I honestly am not fond of spicy and oh so oily foods. And so we preferred burgers and fries than these.

Singapore though is an elegant city. I admire their infrastructures, and places, but what caught my attention that has fascinated me much was the one of a kind fashion of the asian girls all over. They dress up like everyday is a fashion show. I just can't imagine how they feel like walking on high heels all day , all night. While I was having a paralyzed-like leg after our 1 day walk. It was tiring!

  

But of course, Singapore could never be without the Universal Studios! I don't know why, but my inner goddess is always been wanting to be whirled around the roller coaster. It just fill so fulfilling after knowing that I have surpassed another ride that took my breath away for several seconds. And it makes me feel brave!

I have not much to say about the Singapore trip actually. I have traveled from different places and I know I only have a novel-like story when there's something different about the place or something that could make me feel so impressed. But there's no such in particular in this place. It just feel like Hongkong or maybe some other places. But I have to admit, that this trip is something special. And that is because I was with my whole family. And that is something worth remembering! =)